Assisted Living – the Good Bad and the Ugly


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What is Assisted Living?

The typical Assisted Living model is based on apartment style living with care services built in. This model encourages independence and autonomy while providing supervision and daily assistance with care needs. Meals are typically served in a main dining area with the intent of a social gathering while enjoying meals selected by the residents. Activities will be offered, including outings, scenic bus rides, and trips to the grocery store, bank, and doctors visits on designated days of the week.

What type of care is provided in Assisted Living?

Assisted Living provides custodial care, not medical care.

1. Bathing, Dressing, Toileting, Grooming, Mobility, Medication Management
2. Cooking, Housekeeping, Transportation, Laundry

What can I expect to pay for Assisted Living?

Most Assisted Living facilities structure their costs on an “ala carte” system. You will be quoted a “base cost” or “room and board cost” ranging from $1500-$3000 per month, depending on geography, size of apartment, and amenities offered. Expect to see additional costs added on right away. Based on an assessment of your care needs, the price will increase accordingly. This price can vary from month-to-month, especially if care needs drastically improve or decline over time.

What are the advantages to Assisted Living?

1. Less expensive than nursing home care
2. Private apartments to optimize privacy, autonomy, and independence
3. Three meals a day served in a social dining atmosphere
4. Security and call bell systems
5. Designed with accessibility in mind (roll-in showers, etc)
6. Exercise programs
7. Care Services available- to be used as little or as much as you require
8. Activity programs designed to keep residents active, social, and healthy
9. Most have a beauty parlor on site

What are the limitations of Assisted Living?

1. Despite staff presence and encouragement, some residents can become isolated
2. Most do not allow residents to cook, for safety reasons
3. Assisted Living can not accommodate residents who are wandering or exit seeking
4. Minimal staffing requirements in most states. On average, expect to see 1 caregiver for every 30 residents during peak hours, and much less at night
5. While facilities tout their abilities to care for residents through the end of life, many will ask families to hire private caregivers or transfer to a higher level of care if the residents needs are beyond the scope of their staffing levels

What do I look for in an Assisted Living community?

1. Ask to see the latest survey
2. Invite yourself to lunch (most will happily invite you first). Do you have menu options? Can family or friends join you or a meal? What is the cost for guest meals?
3. Do the other residents interact well with each other? Are the staff friendly and kind? Do they know the residents by name?
4. What is the caregiver-to-resident staffing ratio for each shift?
5. Is a nurse available? What hours is the nurse in the building?
6. Does the facility have a comfortable atmosphere? Is it clean? Are there any noticeable odors?
What safety features are available?
7. Is transportation available? Is there an additional cost?
8. How often is the care plan reviewed? Is the resident or responsible party involved in the review? (they should be)
9. What is the turn-over rate for staff? *Note* Most facilities have a high turn-over rate. It’s a huge problem. What is the facility doing to keep current staff and attract new quality caregivers?
10. If you have a pet, ask about any fees you will be expected to pay for your pet. Typically, an additional move-in fee and cleaning deposit will be incurred.
11. What cost of living increases can be expected? (we have noticed 3-6% yearly for most communities)
12. If the community can no longer meet your needs, how much notice will you receive and what assistance will be available to relocate to another level of care?
13. Trust your instincts!!!

Who pays for Assisted Living?

1. Private Pay (you)
2. Long Term Care Insurance- Check your policy for coverage, waiting periods, etc…
3. Medicaid- If you already qualify for Medicaid, or will qualify in the near future, make sure the facility you are considering has a Medicaid contract- many do not. You can check with the facility or your local Agency on Aging office for a list of contracted facilities in your area. If a facility does have a contract, chances are they are trying to balance Medicaid v.s. private pay in the building. Some will have a waiting list for Medicaid, so plan ahead. Do not wait until a crisis to start your search!!!

If you are just starting your search for an Assisted Living Community, you may consider working with a geriatric care manager or placement and referral agency to guide you. These professionals will know the communities in your area and save you valuable time and energy.

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